Dating Trend: Think twice before making plans, you might get 'gophered'

In the ever-evolving landscape of modern dating, new terms and trends emerge, reflecting the shifting dynamics of romantic relationships. Gophering is the latest phenomenon that challenges the infamous act of ghosting.

Ghosting is the act of suddenly and completely cutting off communication with a romantic interest, has become all too common in the dating world. It leaves the ghosted partly feeling confused, hurt, and emotionally abandoned. However, the new term, gophering has surfaced, shedding light on an alternative approach.

Gophering, in contrast to ghosting, refers to texting someone who initially showed interest but then went silent. However, when you make plans to meet this person, they never show up or cancel at the last moment. This is precisely what gophering is.

It involves popping in and out of a person's life without any clear consistency or commitment. This behavior can range from sporadic texts or occasional likes on social media to brief moments of engagement followed by prolonged periods of silence.

The rise of gophering can be attributed to various factors prevalent in modern dating culture. With the rise of online dating apps, there is an abundance of options available at one's fingertips, leading to a decrease in patience and commitment.

Gophering can be frustrating and confusing for those on the receiving end. The intermittent attention can give false hope, leaving individuals unsure about where they stand with their romantic interest. The uncertainty and inconsistency can lead to heightened anxiety, self-doubt, and emotional distress.

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