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  • Tolyamory is the new term in the dating world
  • The term was introduced by podcaster and sex and relationship columnist Dan Savage
  • The term combines the words tolerate and polyamory

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What is Tolyamory? A new term has taken over the dating world. Here is all you need to know

Introduced by podcaster and sex and relationship columnist Dan Savage, 'Tolyamory' is when one or both parties turn a blind eye towards their partner's infidelities.

What is Tolyamory? A new term has taken over the dating world. Here is all you need to know

With every passing year, we are introduced to new terms from the dating world. While 'breadcrumbing' and 'benching' have already seeped into modern-day relationships, a new trend in the dating world is making all the noise.

Termed 'tolyamory', it combines the words polyamory and tolerate. Here is some more info.

What is the new dating term 'Tolyamory'?

The term 'tolyamory' was introduced by podcaster and sex and relationship columnist Dan Savage. The term combines the terms "tolerate" and "polyamory" and describes a relationship dynamic where one or both parties tolerate or put up with the other's affairs and sexual encounters.

However, as oppposed to polyamory, this one isn't something the couple have formally discussed and agreed upon. Creator Dan Savage described it as "Someone willing to turn a blind eye to a lap dance or a brief affair after years of marriage. They’re able to focus on all the ways their spouse demonstrates their commitment and shows their love. And all of those other ways compensate or make the cheating that might be happening tolerable. These people aren’t fools or dupes. They’re not to be pitied - they know what they signed up for and long ago made peace with what they got. They’re willing to put up with it - a certain amount of it - reconciled to it, willing to tolerate it. They are, in a word, tolyamorous."

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Tolyamory is a relationship dynamic where one or both parties tolerate or put up with the other's affairs and sexual encounters.

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